Nora Ephron Quotes 11 Genius Lines

Nora Ephron Quotes: 11 Genius Lines From the Writer and Director
Story by Abbey Bender

As the brilliant mind behind beloved rom-coms like When Harry Met Sally . . ., Sleepless in Seattle and You've Got Mail and acclaimed books like Heartburn and I Feel Bad About My Neck: And Other Thoughts on Being a Woman, Nora Ephron left a major mark on pop culture with her signature wit. The trailblazing writer and film director has inspired countless women to embrace their outspokenness and look at life with a sense of humor, and her impact can be felt long after her death at age 71 in 2012.

Ephron's movies are forever associated with fall thanks to their cozy, lived-in vibes, and as a chill creeps into the air and the leaves start to turn, we can't help but try to channel the filmmaker's sweater-clad heroines. With autumn in full swing, keep reading for 11 iconic Nora Ephron quotes that perfectly capture her sharp yet sweet approach to aging, relationships, womanhood and more.


Ephron's movies are forever associated with fall thanks to their cozy, lived-in vibes, and as a chill creeps into the air and the leaves start to turn, we can't help but try to channel the filmmaker's sweater-clad heroines. With autumn in full swing, keep reading for 11 iconic Nora Ephron quotes that perfectly capture her sharp yet sweet approach to aging, relationships, womanhood and more.

1. ‘Everything is copy.'
Ephron shrewdly recognized that everything that happened in her life-even the bad things, like her high-profile husband, journalist Carl Bernstein, cheating on her, leading her to write her novel and screenplay Heartburn-could be used as a source of creative inspiration.


Nora Ephron in 2008
Nora Ephron in 2008
Nora Ephron in 2008

2. ‘Oh, how I regret not having worn a bikini for the entire year I was 26. If anyone young is reading this, go, right this minute, put on a bikini, and don't take it off until you're 34.'
While many women struggle with body image issues in their 20s, decades later, it's common to look back and wish you had embraced what you had, in all your youthful attractiveness, and no quote encapsulates that particular dynamic more amusingly than this Ephron quip.

3. ‘In my sex fantasy, nobody ever loves me for my mind.'
The filmmaker wasn't afraid to get a little sassy about gender conventions and the fact that many of us wish to be desired for our looks.

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4. ‘I don't think any day is worth living without thinking about what you're going to eat next at all times.'

Ephron was a foodie, and her final film, Julie & Julia, was about legendary chef Julia Child, so it's fitting that she said these spot-on words about the joy of eating.


Meryl Streep and Nora Ephron on the set of Julie & Julia in 2009
Meryl Streep and Nora Ephron on the set of Julie & Julia in 2009
Meryl Streep and Nora Ephron on the set of

Julie & Julia

in 2009

5. ‘Insane people are always sure that they are fine. It is only the sane people who are willing to admit that they are crazy.'

The writer always dropped truth bombs with a great deal of self-awareness.

6. ‘Reading is one of the main things I do. Reading is everything. Reading makes me feel I've accomplished something, learned something, become a better person. Reading makes me smarter.'
This quote beautifully captures the power of books and how they can build up our empathy and intelligence.

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7. ‘I try to write parts for women that are as complicated and interesting as women actually are.'
Ephron was known for creating relatable female characters and was one of the foremost female writers and directors of the '80s and '90s. As this quote shows, she always set out to make her protagonists multidimensional, and this is why her work has such a dedicated and multigenerational fanbase.


Nora Ephron and Meg Ryan on the set of You've Got Mail in 1998
Nora Ephron and Meg Ryan on the set of You've Got Mail in 1998
Nora Ephron and Meg Ryan on the set of

You've Got Mail

in 1998

8. ‘Sometimes I think that not having to worry about your hair anymore is the secret upside of death.'
Leave it to Ephron to have a pithy take on beauty standards and mortality!

9. ‘The desire to get married is a basic and primal instinct in women. It's followed by another basic and primal instinct: the desire to be single again.'
Ephron was married three times, and exploring the challenges of maintaining a relationship made for some of her most enduring work.


Nora Ephron with her third husband, Goodfellas screenwriter Nicholas Pileggi, in 2005
Nora Ephron with her third husband, Goodfellas screenwriter Nicholas Pileggi, in 2005
Nora Ephron with her third husband,

Goodfellas

screenwriter Nicholas Pileggi, in 2005

10. ‘My mother wanted us to understand that the tragedies of your life one day have the potential to be the comic stories the next.'

Nora Ephron's mom, Phoebe, was a playwright and screenwriter, and her career had a major influence on her children, as all four of her daughters became screenwriters. Nora clearly took her mom's advice to heart, and she developed a knack for using difficult life experiences as fodder for comedy classics.

11. ‘Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.'

These words are a powerful reminder to live boldly and joyfully.


Nora Ephron on the set of Sleepless in Seattle in 1993
Nora Ephron on the set of Sleepless in Seattle in 1993
Nora Ephron on the set of

Sleepless in Seattle

in 1993

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