Encouragement and guidance for the daughter

I have lived a lot and I have something to remember. The creak of the door in the house where he spent his childhood. A lonely cherry tree outside the window. Bubbles on puddles in a summer downpour. The day my grandmother brought me to the temple. The cry of a flock of rooks circling over our yard. A summons to the army. Tears on the grave of my father. Winter patterns on our windows. The ticking of an alarm clock telling about the transience of life... All this has meaning and significance and fits all in one word - love.

Love is where the purity of the heart is. Love paves the way to great heights. Love inspires the mind. People around need love, kind words, bright looks. They need a little - at least a sip of this love. Because, without it, nothing makes sense. So our conversation with you, my daughter, will always be in the spirit of love, in the spirit of meek and humble instruction, which consists of simple words.

Purity is the beginning of strength and inspiration. Therefore, let purity of mind and purity of heart be the main priorities for you. Whenever you purify your mind and your heart from everything superfluous, then your strength increases.
If your soul is pure, you will be an attractive and beautiful person, interesting for people.
It is natural for a person to strive for cleanliness and maintain cleanliness.

Let other people go ahead. Open the door for them. Make room for them. Let them go first. Let them have time. And you show humility. Then God will clear the way for you. He will open all doors for you, remove all obstacles from your path, and you will find what you want. You will reach the goal. You will succeed and be the winner! For as you have shown little mercy towards others, God will show His great mercy towards you!

The advantages of a humble person are always great. For example, when he gets into a new team, he does not bulge himself, does not try to appear strong, smart to others, and then, relying on his humility, his simplicity, he will win more and more sympathy from the people around him, as a result, he becomes the leader of the team or one of the leaders.
A proud person, on the contrary, once in a new team, tries to position himself as a kind of cool person. This may have some weight in the eyes of others for a while, but then the "rating" of this proud person will only fall, fall to zero. The same principle works in the relationship between a man and a woman.


My daughter, do not let yourself be led astray, remember what a person has in his heart, then on his lips, then in his eyes. The depth (or emptiness) of a person's nature can be seen if you look closely into his eyes and listen to his speech. All the other attributes are just "tuning", for which it is convenient for him to hide. A wise, holistic person, formed as a person, does not need any external attributes to prove something to someone.

The behavior of a person, my daughter, his words, actions, deeds are a consequence of the state of his soul. To correct speech, behavior, actions, a person needs to work on his inner world. It is impossible to change behavior without changing the inner world. What kind of food we feed the soul, then it sprouts. What we feed the "inner man" with is manifested in the external way of life.

It is more profitable for you to come to an understanding of important truths through teaching and instruction than through suffering and loss, in order to make sure of what you were told and warned against.

People blame other people or circumstances for their failures and losses. But the real reason for their downfall lies in their commitment to passions- vanity, lust and greed.

Unexpectedly, the inner world of a person is revealed and manifested through his behavior, his words or his silence.

Do not avoid a beggar in order to give him alms. Then you will avoid meeting with need.

Strive for those things that make your soul kinder and brighter, and avoid things that can make your soul rude and callous. Let your heart melt like wax in the moments of God's visitation, rather than suffocate and wither in the moment of the devil's seduction.

When a strong person shows humility, it emphasizes his dignity. When a stupid person shows pride, it aggravates his madness.

To be continued.